Pain

  • Hard Things

    Remember that time when you told me something hard was coming? That it wasn’t necessarily bad, but hard? I tucked that warning away. I waited. But how does one prepare for hard? So I went about my business. And then the first hard thing happened. It was hard but not hard enough for me to…

  • Abyss

    I saw my marriage as something that I could hold together.  I believed if I could do enough things and work hard enough, I could create a happy marriage single handedly.  When I decided to end it, a huge part of my identity was taken from me.  In some ways this was extremely liberating.  I…